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Educational Needs

Many children with genetic variations reach developmental milestones at the same pace as their peers, but some may experience learning differences, neurodiversity, or require additional medical care. These factors can impact their school experience. Some children benefit from additional educational support, such as:

  • Classroom accommodations (e.g., extra test time, a quieter learning space).

  • Specialized services (e.g., speech therapy, occupational therapy, special education).

  • Behavioral and emotional support.

  • Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) tools for non-verbal students.

Children in Science Class

What to Expect at School

Parents are not required to share their child’s diagnosis, as medical information is confidential. If a child is thriving academically and doesn’t need extra support, disclosure may not be necessary. However, if support is needed, deciding whether to inform the school can be challenging—especially when symptoms aren’t visible. The best choice depends on the child’s needs, school policies, and cultural factors.

Deciding how much to share with the school can be complex. Some parents worry about stigma, non-inclusive policies, or limited school resources. Many report that educators have little understanding of their child’s genetic variation, may overlook parental input, or exclude them from decisions¹. For instance, research on parent experiences of children with X & Y differences highlights key barriers to learning, including:

  • Limited understanding of X & Y genetic variations among educators.

  • A significant need for social and emotional school-based support.

  • Incomplete or inaccessible educational support plans.

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While parental involvement is essential in shaping effective support plans²⁻³, full disclosure is not always necessary. If you’re concerned about potential negative impacts, you can choose to share only specific challenges or support needs rather than the full diagnosis. If you’re unsure how to proceed, advocacy groups or healthcare professionals can offer guidance on balancing privacy with accessing the right support.

Insights from the Chromodiversity™ Podcast suggest these challenges extend to children with other genetic differences worldwide, particularly in learning, social inclusion, and peer interactions. For example, in one episode, author Jodi Samuels, whose daughter has Down syndrome (Trisomy 21), challenges what she sees as well-intentioned but misguided “token kindness” at school. Instead, she advocates for “radical inclusion.”

Should I tell the School?

“Kindness kills.”

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Parent-school collaboration can be very beneficial for the well-being and academic success of children with a genetic variation. These recommendations—adapted from research on educational needs —can help guide discussions with teachers and school staff. Even taking action on just a small number of recommendations is likely to result in a significantly better experience for students.

How to Improve School Support

  • Listen to parents. Parents are not only experts on the unique patterns of strengths and needs in their own children, but often possess a more nuanced understanding of their child’s diagnosis than professionals.

  • Establish 'friendship groups’. Create intentional group placements and class partnerships to foster supportive relationships and a sense of belonging among students

  • Advocate for early intervention and accommodations. Monitor student progress carefully and introduce support services at the earliest signs of need to address any challenges effectively.

  • Sustain monitoring and support. Maintain support even if a student no longer meets the criteria for special education, ensuring continued support and success in their educational journey.

Teacher and Pupil

For Teachers

  • Recognize the impact of genetic variations. Acknowledge the influence of genetic variations on educational experiences, encouraging interventions and accommodations for students' differences.

  • Strengthen family-school partnerships. Offer families a 'release of information document' for open communication, lightening their burden in service coordination.

  • Highlight medical diagnoses. Include medical diagnoses in educational support plans to qualify younger students for early support. Partner with medical providers during assessments, with school nurses and psychologists acting as liaisons.

  • Implement classroom accommodations. Remove learning barriers by allowing for breaks, preferential seating, and extended test time.

  • Provide evidence-based academic interventions. Offer targeted support in reading, writing, and numeracy, adjusting as academic demands change.

  • Appoint empathetic teachers. Assign teachers with strong classroom management skills, high empathy, and knowledge of learning differences.

  • Educate teachers in learning strategies. Train teachers in executive function learning strategies, positive psychology, and AAC technologies

  • Support dedicated case managers. Allocate case managers for secondary school students to manage multiple classes and expectations.

  • Partner with advocacy organizations. Collaborate with advocacy organizations to enhance communication, mediate conflicts, and educate school staff

For Schools

  • Implement disability categories. Ensure that educational boards are aware of disability categories for special education qualification that acknowledge genetic differences, such as the "Other Health Impaired" category in the USA. Encourage schools to utilize these categories effectively in their special education programs.

  • Allocate funds equitably. Set and enforce equitable allocation of funds for students with disabilities, including budgeting for Augmentative and Assistive Communication (AAC) technologies and specialized school staff support. This ensures that students with disabilities receive the necessary resources and accommodations to succeed in their education.

  • Promote awareness and accessibility. Educate schools on available resources for students with disabilities, and provide access to special learning and social skills programs. By fostering awareness and accessibility, educational boards can create a more inclusive and supportive learning environment for all students.

Capitol Building

For Policymakers

“We're not a disorder. We're not a syndrome. We're people.”

Chromodiversity podcast

Takeaway

Many children with genetic variations have typical school experiences. However, for some, medical and neurodevelopmental factors can affect their well-being and success in school. When extra support is needed, collaboration between parents and the school becomes essential. Parents must decide whether to disclose their child’s diagnosis or focus solely on discussing specific challenges. If the school environment is not inclusive or supportive of accommodations, exploring alternative educational settings may be necessary. Since school systems vary worldwide, local advocacy groups specializing in your child's genetic or neurodevelopmental difference can provide guidance on available support and resources in your area.

Consider sharing this resource with your child's healthcare professional or school if you feel it could be helpful.

“I wish the school had a better understanding of the diagnosis.”

Chromodiversity podcast

Further Reading

  1. Paz-Lourido, B., Negre, F., de la Iglesia, B., & Verger, S. (2020). Influence of schooling on the health-related quality of life of children with rare diseases. Health and quality of life outcomes, 18(1), 109. https://doi.org/10.1186/s12955-020-01351-x

  2. Barger, M. M., Kim, E. M., Kuncel, N. R., & Pomerantz, E. M. (2019). The relation between parents' involvement in children's schooling and children's adjustment: A meta-analysis. Psychological bulletin, 145(9), 855–890. https://doi.org/10.1037/bul0000201

  3. Eskow, K. G., Summers, J. A., Chasson, G. S., Mitchell, R. (2018). The Association Between Family–Teacher Partnership Satisfaction and Outcomes of Academic Progress and Quality of Life for Children/Youth With Autism. Journal of policy and practice in intellectual disabilities, 15(1), 16-25 https://doi.org/10.1111/jppi.12221

  4. Thompson, T., Stinnett, N., Tartaglia, N., Davis, S., & Janusz, J. (2022). 'I Wish the School Had a Better Understanding of the Diagnosis': parent perspectives on educational needs of students with sex chromosome aneuploidies. Journal of research in special educational needs, 22(2), 175–187. https://doi.org/10.1111/1471-3802.12558

  5. Richardson, J. P., Riggan, K. A., & Allyse, M. (2021). The Expert in the Room: Parental Advocacy for Children with Sex Chromosome Aneuploidies. Journal of developmental and behavioral pediatrics, 42(3), 213–219. https://doi.org/10.1097/DBP.0000000000000885


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